Psychological adjustment carefully wedding phobia!
Since when do not know, a reference to "wedding" word started
nervous. Although after several rounds of discussion and dispute, big
day and the hotel has finally been finalized, but the thought process
there is a wedding, bridesmaid men and women, personnel arrangements,
the placing of flowers, the arrangement of new homes Evening Dresses
the endless details unresolved, could not resist stomach began to
churn! Although the thought of Taking over as the royal wedding, you
can at any rate this is the only time in life, ah! Thus, even if, as
has always been self-efficient, powerful OFFICE strong woman has a bit
much, so the wedding and the banquet was defeated!
Fear of you caught the wedding yet?
A complete wedding should be love, happiness, satisfaction filled and
sharing, not a show off and the carnival, so we are more respected
simple, dignified western wedding, because it is a ritual of love.
Case I:
The more close to the wedding, ALICE feel more exhausted. Arrange all
the details of the wedding plus the layout of new homes took all her
free time, a direct result of the complex details of her lack of sleep,
she yawned in the afternoon OFFICE, looks like a half asleep.
A wedding is a major event of two people should work together. But Mr.
Right big responsibility and a large capacity, the total flying
everywhere, so the size of the thing can only be kicked by the bride.
Although the husband and his family inside and outside the top leaders,
ALICE Doukua of LG considerate enough, but just before the wedding
than most busy in the maintenance and dressed brides Prom Dresses, ALICE will inevitably be wronged!
Though some friends help, ALICE still found to hold a decent show and
the wedding is really a huge project site! ALICE turned wedding
planner, girlfriends as on-site implementation, a variety of trivial
dense presentation of a laptop, just to coordinate all aspects of her
victims should phone ringing off the hook. To make matters worse, her
busy work, in addition to further squeeze the honeymoon vacation. ALICE
occasionally than the mirror, looking gaunt face filled, those who can
not speak slowly accumulated complaints, although she has always been a
big woman's style, but occasionally the retreat of the wedding leaked
out.
Case II:
4 years old, and next door to a small freckled boy play set; 16 years
old, hiding under the covers and close friend to steal guess the color
of dress; 22 years old, for the first time made a friend ?Jo Ann is
maid of honor potential mad to marry, and finally Joanne also became a
bride! But only just tasted the joy about to be married, but soon
discovered Joanne: The Siege is not good.
After the wedding countdown, Joanne was surprised to find himself on
the fiance does not understand, he seemed to become preoccupied with
punctuality overnight
Misers. Home decoration, he often save a few dollars to the cost of
materials, and the salesman dispute high on low, entangled for a long
time. Weekend dinner, has become a lack of a small restaurant
environment. This is the past that she was familiar with decent
boyfriend just different person. The talk between two people has become
monotonous and boring, no anything else in addition to the wedding,
and once in charge of two people who talk about marriage, the financial
power house, my fiance Joanna lack of evaluation of blunt financial
awareness, no sense of economy, so that Joanna is very unhappy, and
finally they broke up.
Case III:
Xiaoyun bride and her boyfriend have been dating for 5 years, talk of
marriage can be described as a matter of course. Xiaoyun gentle
character, usually courteous and her boyfriend has been in the circle
of friends is definitely a model Sweet 16 Dresses. Since the wedding day can be laid down, a small but increasingly tense relationship between the couple.
To make arrangements for the wedding, her mother made a special trip
back in time from the field to help new home selection of furniture,
decorated wedding site and more. Result, the problem is here. One into
the Furniture City, Xiaoyun to find themselves and the mother's taste
really is a far cry, like his mother almost did not fancy, they like
her mother can not accept. Good-tempered Xiaoyun also like to follow
the mother, but this is their future home ah! After several disputes
fairly calm, Xiaoyun had to convince the LG, the enthusiastic mother to
stay at home. This was not enough, in the wedding process, layout, and
Xiaoyun crashes again, and my mother's advice, although LG is
half-hearted peacemaker is to do things even if passed, could
ultimately LG is also impatient, criticism Xiaoyun lack of respect for
her mother, so the couple never had boring model also had a falling
out, and then further to order wedding invitations is to use
handwriting or printing such a trivial matter, two people have had a
big fight.
Love is the greatest enemy of fear
Wedding or marriage phobia syndrome, also known as premarital bipolar
disorder, adjustment disorder medicine called pressure, that is if
there is a significant thing about to happen, such as changing jobs,
marriage, ordinary people will inevitably feel the pressure of huge
increases. In fact, modern man is always anxious to complete the
various stages of life, let alone such a big wedding? Psychologists of
common life events give us the pressure was the score by which the
pressure of being divorced is 73 minutes, feeling the pressure to get
married is 50 points. Wedding phobia is the most common symptoms of
anxiety, fiery, insomnia, can not concentrate. Overall, a moderate
degree of pressure to get married, but for those who like pursuit of
the perfect marriage pressure is magnified many!
A complete wedding should be love, happiness, satisfaction filled and
sharing, not a show off and the carnival, so we are more respected
simple, dignified western wedding, because it is a ritual of love.
Chinese-style wedding to focus on the tedious ritual, and the scene
comparisons and show off, it was natural or not natural to the wedding
as the assessment of self-worth, are too concerned about other people's
views. These excessive expectations of the parties bound to the
marriage has brought great pressure, fear of uninvited wedding. Love is
the greatest enemy of fear, when you anxiety, fear, may wish to stop,
feel the love between partners. Analysis: Is what the psychological
concerns bothering you? The mind to tell your partner, discuss with the
solution. To eliminate the "fear of the wedding," couples key is to
get rid of the illusion of marriage, do not expect too much, whether it
is marriage or the birth of a new home, means the responsibility and
pay. So, you will calm a lot.
The opening ceremony of the perfect wedding to relax
Worry about in a grand wedding ceremony of your dignified deportment
not it? Under the watchful eyes, you are too nervous because of the
emergence of situation? Following completion of this ceremony, it will
make you into a more detached, more beautiful state. Yes, you are all
perfect for the bride in mind! Sitting in the most relaxed position, or
lying down. Imagine heart, a holy lotus bud, in the early morning sun,
its petals slowly began to bloom. With the petals open, the flowers
gradually spread to the surrounding. Aroma of the flowers will surround
you, and then gradually penetrate into every cell of your body. Next,
this refreshing fragrance into deep love, you wander where your heart
so the anxiety disappeared, because the love of your face showing a
smile from the heart. Because the love of your heart happier. Imagine
the boundaries of your body begin to disappear, and the fragrance of
love in your body gradually to the surrounding flow. Drifting
atmosphere of love your love, your parents, your friends, surrounded
them together. Your love continue to drift, the whole hotel is full of
weddings. Everyone in the wedding unknowingly been infected by your
love.
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2 strokes insomnia eliminate the tension before the wedding!
Wedding just around the corner, it is inevitable tension, insomnia,
haggard face on the wedding is likely to become your lifelong regret!
Fortunately, the following two methods to help you. A cup of lemon
juice grapefruit mint ingredients: grapefruit 1, mint leaves 4 lemon 1 /
4. Method: Peel the grapefruit seed, mint leaves, washed, seeded
lemon, cut into 2 cm pieces. Juice all the ingredients together.
Efficacy: the sweet smell of lemon is good for the mind calm, three
kinds of materials, mix and match your body completely relax. Using
self-hypnosis British Sleep Association President Charles ?Sikorski in
the "deep sleep", a book recommended by this self-hypnosis: Choose a
comfortable posture lying on the floor, hands by your sides.
Concentrate on breathing, feel completely relaxed in the sink to the
floor. A point on the ceiling staring, 5 times a deep breath, a recent
comparative 1 long. Exhale say to yourself: "I can sleep." Imagine
yourself down the 10 stairs, into a beautiful bedroom. Down the stairs,
the number from 10 to 1, looking more relaxed feeling. Lie looked at
his beautiful big bed, soft bedding in deep, say to yourself: "I sleep
well sweet." In the heart gradually sink sleep. To focus attention on
his sleeping dreams, take a deep breath. Finally, said to himself:
"count to three I will wake up, feeling very relaxed, and then you can
sleep." Count to 3, slowly up to bed.
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