Age to marry a woman?
A, 28-year-old was already a big girl left?
Recently, in a well-known recruitment website, has a woman on the left
male and left surveys: in the end what age can enter the "left" as
well? Most respondents believed that 35-year-old male, female, 28 years
old to be "left." And because the social scene and other issues of
small and economic pressure, left women looking for men and left the
other half is not easy, as the woman left the parents, may not be more
unhappy than their daughter's marriage problems.
B, a hot topic column
Columnist margin "is now seeking a man age to get married," caused a
lot of hot friends. In this paper, the gross profit made: Now, if girls
want to get married, never stop repeating the past, thinking that he is
the protagonist wedding Formal Dresses,
playing best of power and prestige, this is likely to accelerate the
ripening of a bunk groom. Because there are a thousand reasons for the
prospective groom to the single life. Maori also told the woman: a
woman is already gone to the golden age, since when you take care.
Although some exaggeration, but the "bunk" is no longer a bride already
patented.
A, a woman forced marriage cases
How do I address her? Only call her "former associate sister." They
love 4 years, once so close to marriage, but she was finally forced
marriage again becomes EX (the former).
4 years ago, she was 25-year-old unmarried young women, older brother,
36-year-old divorced mature male, attracted to each other is almost a
matter of course. She enjoyed Chongni, he grabbed the youth of the
small tail. At that time he did not reject marriage, sometimes I
casually asked: "When things ah?" He was always cheerfully replied
casually: "Next year, next year."
Complex next year, she gone on to 29 years old. The patience of a
sudden before there is no 30-year-old like her life, a cliff, and 29
years old, it is only a step away from the cliff where, filled with
frightened. She more than once said to me: "You go to persuade your
brother Well, I'm really 30 years old!"
So, I and my parents took turns, the first quasi-sister also feel the need to build on the progress Mother of The Bride Dresses, said that unity is strength, perhaps to overcome it in one fell swoop? So he started a series of forced action.
Action One: candle pot, persuade
In their new house has been renovated, and she personally cook a pot
of hot pot, electric stove to light the candle lit. Big Brother readily
available to pull bright headlights, and she was suddenly flashed on
the dice. After that, she barely answer, he is getting more and more
impatient, and finally, burst noisy meal, over.
Action II: wedding, the spot to
Before the quasi-sister's back to set a wedding, she thought, if big
brother quit, she said, patting just to play, does not mean marriage.
But, really took, if he does not end, then "wedding is photographed,
only to abandon his girlfriend" would be a great moral offense, he
estimated that the pressure of public opinion or to take into account
the Oh! So she lied brother said, "take you out to play", the result of
a brother into the studio door, I know that today's "point of no
Haoshua", and walked away, he was how she explained, he determined not
to turn back.
Action three: family meetings, focus firepower.
Before the quasi-sister to me, my parents, her parents all brought
together to discuss the fate of their own problems. Her parents of the
means: "Big Brother is the marriage knot after a child has also had,
but I was a 29-year-old daughter, old maid, a clear statement to the
letter does not bear not end immediately break up!" My parents are
anxious: "Results do not end your kid in the end? people do not end, do
not delay!" I am a woman, of course I have to support her: "because it
is a second-hand man, does not matter Bridesmaids Dresses,
but women must not delay!" immediately before the prospective sister
hung up two lines of tears , closing argument: "I told you four years,
you always give an explanation, or " if not finished, big brother said:
"To stay away! break up breaking up!"
She thought it was only angry words, then put away the bag back to her
family waiting for him to kneel for mercy, but, no matter how we
persuade older brother, never entered her house step.
Witness asked Big Brother: Why do not you get married?
Big Brother said:
1. Divorce because she (ex big brother) do not agree, I will deposit
all the property and gave her all, leaving only a car and a daughter. I
think the meaning of marriage is not, as long as two people have
feelings, why bother? My age now, the happiness the most important,
certainly not limited to the happy marriage.
2. She (the former quasi-sister) too fast, and forced me tight, I'm 40
years old, do not want to be when the pupils do not want to be forced
to do what I do not want to do.
3. I think that marriage is what comes naturally, I did not reject
remarriage, if she did not hurry to get married, maybe one day I
suddenly told her to marry him then? This matter, put forward by the
women that directly, I felt a great pressure.
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